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Traditional Chinese wedding
央视国际 2003年05月12日 16:49
Red Head Covers
At a traditional Chinese wedding， the bride is often seen with a red veil on her head. It covers the bride's face. Chinese people call the veil， made of a laced silk square， red head cover.
This practice dates back to the Qi Period （479－502） of the Northern and Southern Dynasties. The head cover was used by women farmers to protect their heads against cold wind or hot sunshine while working in the fields. It could be a cloth of any color and was big enough to cover the head top. For its practical use and ornamental function， the head cover became a widespread custom.
By the beginning of Tang Dynasty （618－907）， the cover had become a long veil down to the shoulder. And it was no longer a privilege of working women. Later， Emperor Li Longji made a decision. He demanded that all maids－in－waiting in the palace add a piece of gauze to the head covers to cover their faces. It soon became a fashion among the commons.
But the commons made a difference of the cover's function. In those days， women's faces were thought of as a lure to men. A husband did not want his beautiful wife to be an attraction to men. He wanted her to behave bashfully and look too shy to see men. A veil could realize his wish. And the wife readily accepted the veil to show her loyalty to her husband.
Gradually the veils became popular among both married and unmarried women who were eager to demonstrate their virtues. Veils are not unique in China. Even today veils can still be seen in some other places in the world.
This custom lasted about 1，000 years. From Later Jin Dynasty （936－946）， a veil became a must for bride at the wedding. But the color of the bride's veil is always red as it is the symbolic color of happiness.
Double Happiness
A large Chinese character， Double Happiness， on a red piece of paper or in paper cut is always put where it must strike the eyes on a young couple's wedding. It has a story behind it.
In the ancient Tang Dynasty， there was a student who was on the way to the capital to attend the national final examination， in which the top learners would be selected as the ministers in the court. Unfortunately， he fell ill halfway when he passed through a mountain village. Thanks to a herbalist doctor and his daughter， he was taken to their house and treated well. He recovered quickly due to the father and the daughter's good care. Well， when he had to leave， he found it hard to say good－bye to the pretty girl， and so did she. They fell in love. So the girl wrote down the right hand part of an antithetical couplet for the student to match:
"Green trees against the sky in the spring rain while the sky set off the spring trees in the obscuration."
"Well， I can make it though it is not easy. But you'll have to wait till I have finished the examination." replied the student. The young girl nodded in significance.
In the examination the young man won the first place， who was appreciated by the emperor. Also the winners were interviewed and tested by the emperor. As luck would have it， he was asked by the emperor to finish a couplet， which would need a right part as the answer. The emperor wrote:
"Red flowers dot the land in the breeze's chase while the land colored up in red after the kiss."
The young man realized immediately the right part of the couplet by the girl was the perfect fit to the emperor's couplet， so he took the girl's part as the answer without hesitation. The emperor was delighted to see the matching half of his couplet was so talent and harmonious that he authorized the young man's identity as Minister in the court and allowed him to pay a visit to his hometown first before holding the post. The young man met the girl happily at home and told her the emperor's couplet. They soon got married. For the wedding， the couple DOUBLED the Chinese character， HAPPY， together， on a red piece of paper and put it on the wall to express the happiness for the two events. And from then on， it has been taken on and became a social custom.
Spree in the Bridal Chamber
Though many traditional activities can no longer be seen at a Chinese wedding， the spree in the bridal chamber is still common both in the country and in town.
The spree happens after the feast when the bride and groom go back into their chamber. Relatives and friends and neighbors， any one at the wedding in fact， can come in to play all kinds of tricks on the new couple， especially the bride. They make a lot of noise so that there is an extremely lively atmosphere in the room， which is believed to be an inseparable part of a jolly wedding.
Some say that this custom goes back to Han Dynasty （206 B.C.－A.D. 220）. Others say it was first started by Emperor Zhao Kuangyin， the founder of the Northern Song Dynasty （960－1127）. As historical records say that Zhao was concerned about his subjects and often made personal investigation among them. One day， he was traveling in a suburb of the capital city when he came across a wedding. When he learned that the groom was too poor to hire a musical band， he pretended to be the head of a band and called in his royal band to play at the wedding. At night， as Zhao remembered that it was an unlucky day according to the divination， he stayed at the yard with his military counselor Mr. Miao， so that they might be helpful in case any mishap happened to the couple. They sat in the dim moonlight playing chess. After midnight， they caught sight of a ghost climbing over the brick fence. Zhao picked up a wooden bar and ran up to the ghost. He knocked down the ghost only to find that it was a burglar wearing a mask， who had often been stealing property from newly married homes.
Emperor Zhao returned to the palace and made an announcement that at all weddings there should be relatives， friends and neighbors to stay around the brides and grooms and that all should be permitted to spree to keep off any eventualities.
Written by Ye Qinfa.
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